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Post your issue on the attachment subreddit and and tag me ( mention /u/dacemars in your post). If it’s a straightforward question that can help other people, I’ll answer within a day for free.

If you’ve found me through the subreddit and are looking for a way to express your thanks, your donations help me make the time to continue helping others.

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A subreddit is an anonymous, public forum. When you post your question, please make sure no personally identifying details (names, location, occupations) are included.

online therapy

Attachment-based psychoanalysis over video conferencing. To start, send [email protected] an email with a description of your situation and availability (and time zone).

I have limited availability for this option, and prefer to only see clients with a disorganized/fearful-avoidant attachment.

If you’re unsure whether you have a disorganized attachment, I’ll have a test coming soon.


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My approach focuses on building a therapeutic attachment with you.
Instead of a 50-minute hour that ends on a timer, I block off 120 minutes per session that you can use as as you wish, billed only for what you use.
All sessions are fully confidential unless subpoenaed by a court of law.

Email/Direct Message

Not ready for therapy, but need a private, objective analysis of your DA/FA relationship so you can finally close the book (or know what to expect?)

Send as much detail about your situation as you can to [email protected].

We’ll lay to rest those unanswered questions that have been bugging you.


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My email is protected by confidentiality, you’re welcome to include as much personal detail as you’d like if you feel it’s relevant.

Please be aware that if there is a threat of harm to yourself, others, or children at risk, I’m legally obligated to report it to the police.