The Details

I’m a licensed sex & relationship therapist, specializing in work with Disorganized/Fearful-Avoidant attachments. Currently traveling the world, I work with clients in over 10 countries & research sexuality across cultures.

If you’re interested in therapy with me, click here.

The Story

I believe in our power to transform.

During my childhood, the worst sin I could commit was self-expression. I had nothing I loved in myself, and no idea what I was living for. By my mid-twenties, I’d disconnected completely from my emotions.

I still remember lying in bed one night, realizing that I hadn’t done a single meaningful thing with the last five years of my life. That those five years had passed in the blink of an eye, and in another blink I would be 30. 

That moment was enough to change directions and start a Masters in Counselling – still not for myself, but with the vague idea that I could help people before they reached the point I’d reached.

Because in my mind, there was no chance of happiness for me.

It wasn’t something I deserved.

I had the peace of one already dead.

But as I dedicated years to sacrificing myself for others, chance led me down a different path. I got to study under psychologists with not just brilliant minds, but warm hearts powering them.

And along the way, I got to learn what it feels like to love, and to be loved.

Since then, I’ve worked with war veterans, with victims of sex trafficking, with children who held secret the stories of their abuse for decades.

And I’ve discovered that no matter where we come from, what we’ve done, or how deep our wounds: we all need one thing. Relationships with people who accept us for who we are – and don’t let us hide behind our own bullshit.

If this is what you long for, let’s work together.

Credentials

  • M.Ed., Counselling
    Psychology (UBC)
  • Canadian Certified Counsellor

Therapeutic Approaches & Training

  • Analytic (Jungian) Psychology
  • Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Tantric Philosophy
  • Enneagram