M.Ed., Canadian Certified Counsellor
I’m a licensed sex & relationship therapist. My calling is helping people build supportive romantic relationships full of passion.
Jungian Psychoanalysis, Emotion-Focused Therapy, Psychedelic Psychotherapy, Enneagram, Tantra, & Zen Buddhism: I’ve learned from some of the greatest teachers of Western Psychology & Eastern Spirituality.
My approach combines all these different philosophies into a united, deeper understanding of healing and transformation.
I divide my time between North America, Europe, and Asia; working with clients in over 10 countries. It’s taught me that no matter what culture we come from, learning to have securely attached relationships is life changing.
As a child, I had to grow up too fast. My parents had little control over their emotions, and from a young age I struggled to manage my parents so their tempers wouldn’t explode towards me.
Without space for my emotions, my teen years progressed from anger to numbness. By the time I was twenty, I had nothing I loved in myself, no idea what I was living for, and was completely disconnected from my feelings.
Romantic relationships provided ecstatic bursts of meaning, but always ended the same way – with me managing their emotions at the expense of mine.
After years of this cycle, I ended up doing a Masters degree in counselling psychology: not for myself, but to learn how to better take care of my girlfriend at the time.
But once I started this path, it led me down a different road. I learned about the subconscious, about Attachment Theory, and I got to study under psychologists with not just brilliant minds, but warm hearts powering them.
And along the way, I got to learn what it feels like to love, and to be loved.
I’ve discovered that no matter where we come from, what we’ve done, or how deep our wounds: we all need one thing. Warm, predictable relationships with people who care about our needs.
But many of us despair of finding this kind of love, because we’ve never experienced it. Love was conditional, or painful, or unsafe: and the scars it leaves are so tender we push away anyone who comes close.
This site exists to let you know that if this is how you grew up; it wasn’t your fault. You are not unlovable, and you can find the love you’ve longed for.
I’ve guided dozens of clients to break their cycles of toxic relationships, discover their individual type of sexuality, and build relationships they can be themselves in.
And the best part: When you know how to build this kind of love, your children grow up knowing what love can be.
Your family’s traumas can end with you.
If you’re ready to make a real change, let’s work together.